Wednesday 10 December 2014

Top 5 reasons for not standing

As I was considering stating in the general  elections 2015, I've spent a lot of time talking to women in Bristol about what is keeping them from being more engaged in the political process. Five main reasons have emerged, and although they are not the only ones, they kept on coming up again and again.

1. Lack of confidence came up in all conversations, and I can't say that I am unfamiliar with this feeling. As women, we are faced with confidence issues all the time - from our bodies and the way we parent our children, to the way we take care of the extended family and express ourselves at work. We often suffer from what is known as the "impostor syndrome" - a feeling that we are not as good as people think we are, and we are going to be found out any minute now.

Remember that time when you stood in a meeting and you had so much to say? But just before you came in you were unable to verify that data with a thousand sources, so you did not want to say anything for the fear of everybody discovering that you are not so clever? I do! But guess what - we are clever, we have a lot to contribute, so it's time to take off the cover up and step in the way we are!

2. Disengaging language. Hustings, polls, policies, deficit, governance, neoliberal economic approaches... isn't that an easy language to gasp and understand straight off your feet? Unless you are involved in political processes already - no, this is NOT! It is a language of exclusion and leads to many women (and men!) disengaging with politics. This is one of the reasons populist parties are gaining ground - they are successful at translating politics into every day language.

3. Bureaucratic and patriarchal process. The way parties organise their internal selection processes and campaigns, the way people are engaged are still set in old bureaucratic and patriarchal ways. Most meetings (certainly the most important ones) take place in the evening, leaving out large numbers of women with caring responsibilities.

4. Disillusion with politics. The numbers of people voting and engaging with the political process is NOT on the rise. Women are disengaged from politics (because of the language, because of the time meetings take place) and distance themselves from it.  There is a general feeling that politicians are these white middle class people who have no idea what it is like to live in a terraced house, on the outskirts of Bristol, juggling 2 jobs and 3 children.  Isn’t it true at the moment?

5. Women's representation in the media. Women's representation in the media is not working to our advantage. Starting with the representation of the "ideal" body, to our representation as coldblooded women who do not care about our families (ie. Iron Lady), or women who are miraculously transformed by a role in politics (Mail Online headline: Goodbye death row hair, hello super-sleek soon to be First Minister Nicola, Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2795023/liz-jones-goodbye-death-row-hair-hello-super-sleek-soon-minister-nicola.html#ixzz3LVeLesQx ).

These are all valid points. But we do not have to accept them as the norm. We can change this. Together!




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